I wish I read this years ago cuz this book gave me a plan. I stopped overthinking every text and started paying attention to patterns instead. That alone saved me from repeating the same mistake with the same kind of guy.

I’m not someone who loves dating apps or awkward small talk, so I needed something simple and realistic. The way the book breaks down confidence, presentation, and quick screening made dating feel lighter and way less confusing.

I used to keep giving people “one more chance” and then feel drained after every date. Kerry’s book helped me get clear on what I actually need and stick to it without feeling guilty. The biggest shift was learning how to ask better questions early. I no longer waste weeks figuring out the obvious.